Whats it like having arfid?

Basically the title.

I hope this is allowed in the sub! I have had an eating disorder for a while now. A little while ago, a friend with arfid said some unfair things about anorexics (basically generalized literal ed Twitter to be the standard way anorexics act, and said all anorexics are inherently fatphobic not knowing the full extent of my historyl). For a while that like really irritated me, but I figured an ed is an ed and we are probably in somewhat similar food hell. I want to understand better, because obviously what drives me to not eat is different than what drives them to not eat. What is your everyday life like with food?