Looking to hear success/ happy stories from fellow age gappers who’ve had babies!

My husband(40M) and I(28F) have a 12 year age gap and have been together for over 10yrs. We just had our first baby together 3 months ago. Husband and I both want more kids, but I’d like to hear from others how your dynamic is and how y’all make it work. We have some family members who are happy for us and others who aren’t and judge us (especially since we aren’t done growing our family yet.) ideally we’d like at least 2 more but maybe 3 more and we’d like them no more than 2 years apart so they can grow up together.

I’d love to hear from others who’ve had age gaps and have had multiple children? How was/is it for you in the early years of having children within an age gap relationship? How do you disregard the negative comments from people(including family members)? Would you say it brought your relationship with your spouse closer? I love my husband and the family we’re building. Since we’ve just started this journey I’d like to hear from anyone who’s gone/going through it.