aio? my bf looking for and saving girl’s onlyfans while i’m right next to him.

okay so. i’ve (19f) been dating my bf (20m) for nine months. i was a little uncomfortable at the start because his body count is 32. which, wow. but whatever, it’s his past. i don’t care. my boyfriend is a super horny guy, has hundreds of nudes of me, but still watches pornhub. i don’t really care about that, honestly. i personally don’t watch it because i can get off from thoughts alone.

i was planning on staying at his house for three days. on the first night, i asked to see his phone because i was curious about something he had written in his notes. (it was a list of movies we planned to watch, and i was gonna pick one out). he said yes but he needed to go to the bathroom first. i didn’t think much about it. for some reason, he uses google notes and not the actual iphone notes… a little odd but i didn’t think much of that either. i saw he deleted the app. i assumed it was just taking up space, but i wanted to at least see the list and save it. so i redownloaded the app.

when i opened it, i saw multiple girl’s onlyfans links, girl’s snapchat usernames, and things like “three girl orgy”. worst of all, i saw “milf from sausage party” which is an adult animation movie we had watched a few hours previously. i saw he had written this note at 4pm. while i was next to him and after we watched that movie. i was repulsed. i calmly turned his phone to him and asked what that was. he floundered, bad. i got pissed off and started gathering my things while he tried to explain. i left mid explanation.

he did indeed know i was not comfortable with him looking at girl’s onlyfans. we had multiple conversations about it. once, i asked what he would do if i made one. it was just a random thought i had, i have no intention of ever making one. he flipped his lid, started calling onlyfans girls sluts and whores. i caught him looking and buying one from a woman personally and it almost ended our relationship. this is not something i’m negotiable on. it crosses a boundary for me, plain and simple.

after i left, i blocked him on everything. irrational i know, but i was beyond pissed off. he texted me on a new instagram account he made and this is how it went. when he asked me to call him, i did. he tried to defend his stance and i immediately hung up. he’s now been spamming my phone off different numbers, snapchats and instagram accounts. aio?? i definitely made some mistakes during this, but overall i’m just so disappointed and angry.

ps- i’m purple texts, he’s grey.