All restrictions get relaxed if you have that IT factor

A female cousin of mine is an Obgyn ., since her early 20s she was clear that she will marry and have kids before 30.

But life unfolded differently and she cleared her PG itself after she turned 28.

Her search started after 29, parents were hell bent on a Medico guy ,ready to pay absurd amount of dowry for the right candidate. She already has an apartment in her name in outskirts of Mumbai which was an added factor,but for various reasons they were not getting the right match as caste was also an added criteria .

After various filtrations, they got a radiologist in same city having own hospital and parents who were also doctors ,talks were at advanced stage but later out of the blue, she put a criteria where she said that the guy need to undergo some blood tests including semen analysis and T-levels before she proceeds . She said that she will also share her reports and will do additional tests if required by the guy .

But that guy and his family did not expected this condition, he then said that he will need vir###ity test from her if she is insisting on his blood reports and semen analysis. Lot of verbal fights happened because how he has a medical professional can let her undergo this as hy##n can break for various reasons , but he said that he is f##k bothered about science part and will need that test irrespective of the result.

Things went haywire and finally this prospect got cancelled by the guy family.

During a common event this November, she met a guy who was a CA , I am not sure if she had already decided but she insisted her parents to have talks with guy and his family. Parents got angry as they thought that she is downgrading herself and CAs are at every nook and corner and they do not have the kind of social standing which a doctor has, add to it the guy had 2 other unmarried sisters and other responsibilities, but this time she put her foot down and said that she cannot wait more and her parents are being unreasonable. All those tests and even the astrology criteria were striked off as even her parents were tired with all these and thought let's get away with this.

Anyway cut to know ,their dates have been finalized in May.

I was having regular chat with her where she said that she never wanted to marry that radiologist and that's the reason she place that semen analysis criteria because she was aware no man and his family will put themselves through this.

Back to the main post, what do you think was the main reason she dumping a radiologist and choosing a CA who was earning less than her despite insane working hours and did not have his own flat unlike her.

Well that's where personality and attraction comes into play. A women or men if are initially attracted towards you, they will drop most of their filters.

Edit : CA is not downgrade, but the guy had loads of responsibilities , was doing a job under a firm on fixed salary and did not come from money. Her parents thought (still think )they are too dehati and most relatives will sulk that why we choose them after rejecting so many good prospects who were non-medico but old money.