Curly haired gals/guys , please help
So I have wavy kinda frizzy hair ..... I also have the fix my curls butter and gel .... I really wanna have defined curls and not the chaotic mess thats my hair right now ..
+ My hair look good asff wet but when I dry it they frizz and deform and puff up (and don't tell me to use a diffuser since my mom wouldn't allow me to buy it )
So how do I make them look semi presentable and cute
(context - my mom and lil sis and nani and basicall everbody around me has pin straight hair .... she opposes to the use of curl cream as well and hates it when I scrunch my hair cause she thinks it messes them up)
+ I tried finger coiling for more definition but my hair are thick asff and I do not have that amount of patience ..
(ig my curls are 2b 2a but i might be wrong)
Also my hair had airdried properly for like once in my life (without using any products and had kinda looked like this)
