What do you even expect when they let their own kids CIO?

A friend of mine chooses to let her kids cry it out, just because she does not want to spend the time to be there for them. I’ve seen it myself. Thrown into a crib, door slammed, for a midday nap, crying and screaming, left alone, because parents would rather do something else.

Well, this woman who I thought was my friend, someone who subjected her own kids to the treatment I described above, just let me down in the most rude and cold manner.This is someone I’ve consistently showed up for in her darkest times. But what do I expect when this is the treatment she gives her own children?

I’ve always had that thought in the back of my mind. If this is how she treats her own kids how can she ever be emotionally available and supportive to me. And I was right all along. It sucks and it hurts but obviously it’s nothing personal.