Why can Autistic people be seen as argumentative when asking basic questions?

(I have autism, adhd.)

Me and a lot of my autistic friends have this experience depicted in the YT short. Ive had it a TON with my brothers. It can also happen when say that i can ask any questions.

The only real solution ive found is to avoid the kind of people that gets upset about questions. But it feels surreal that it happens so often and is pretty universal for autistic people