Trying to figure out what to call this kink

So, I'm a straight male, and I usually play the dominant role or top. I find myself wanting a woman who likes to be dominant, but only if I give that control to them. Usually I like to start the interaction this way, and something that my partner does i.e. slapping me, or saying something dirty to me, gets me riled up, then I take over control even if I'm in handcuffs, or restrained in some way.