Where to settle

I met my partner during Erasmus and it was the strongest attraction I ever felt in my life, he’s the best person I know and adores me, as I adore him. After the experience we went back to our respective countries and have been in a Ldr for a year now. He’s from Nordic countries I’m from the south of Europe, close to the alps. I have no clue on how to close the gap: I was born here to immigrant parents and already feel torn between my host country and my parents’ country, because I have family in both places.

If I were to move to my partner’s country I would feel even more torn, also I would know noone expect him and his family. On the other side I’m not sure he would be happy with living close here long term, since my country doesn’t provide the same opportunities and isn’t as developed as his Nordic country.

Furthermore, I don’t want to move too far from my parents (since they basically went through the same experience and left family in home country which we see twice a year)and leave my brother “alone” with me far away.

Is my relationship doomed? I’m afraid I’ll never meet a man as loving as him and with whom I’m so compatible since I’m extremely picky in dating, but on the other side choosing a place to live where the both of us could be happy is very hard. We should both have good jobs (possibly remote as well) in the future but it’s so far ahead I can’t know for sure and how can I handle all this anxiety I have in the meantime?

Thanks to anyone that shares an opinion!