Nepal ma Apologetic huna crime nai ho!

Ma afno kaam ko laagi afno bike lagirahunchu. Mostly patan, naxal natra jadibuti. Iam on my mid 20s tara ajha samma malie euta dai didi ley "sorry bhai, mero galati thiyo" bhandeko chaina accident huda/huna lageko bela.

example: Patan pool is for bikes and pedsterians where we need to cross in same line. Euta gaadi back garda mailey rokera basirako thiye along with other riders. Suddenly pachadi baata pulsar wala ayera mudguard ma thokdincha. So as any normal human being, ma farekera herchu ki ko rahecha esto professional rider and obviously it was mid 30-45ish man trying to get to his destination faster than light. Mailey kei bhannu agadi he raises his hand and rotates it questioning me. Tyo hunchani emf ko direction patta lagauney wala hand gesture. Normally I am a very respectful man tara tyo din I didn't hold anything back. Gaali mathi gaali thapidai gayen, mero support ma ni tannai ayen, usko support ma uko pillion. so that was some experience.

In the end I thought to myself, was it really worth it? Tyo uncle ley yeedi ek choti sorry matrai bhaneko bhaye nothing would have happened. Ani yedi mailey ni suru ma mud guard herera balla react gareko bhayeni nothing would have happened kinaki last ma damage herda euta line matrai scratch bhako rahecha. I guess tyo hand gesture triggered something inside me. His unapologetic eyes were the most triggering along with his pillion with the most dangerous way of holding a carpet.

Conclusion: I think we as Nepali never consider apologizing as an option. So, instead of giving "looks", giving hand gestures, scream I suggest to apologize when in wrong and ignore when damage isn't a dent in your wallet. I've tried reasoning with these kinds of people but there is no hope. Its an endless cycle of two riders scraeming at each other while other gain free entertaintment for 10-30 mins then go back to normal life.Last rant: Anyone who cause such accidents, malie euta main frustrating lagney kura chai. They have so much time to argue with you but don't have enough time to wait like everybody else. It's more frustrating the more I talk about it.