Did you recognize your baby when it was born?
So I'm a FTM at 35. I expected to recognize and instantly fall in love with my baby as soon as she came out. That did not happen. When she was born, they put her on my chest and I didn't have that swell of love and the feeling of "yes, thats my baby." She looked like a little alien and I didn't recognize her at all. Did anyone else have that feeling?
She's 5 weeks now, and i love her with all my heart. She has become familiar to me now, but a lot of people said they instantly had that connection and that seems weird to me.