Update- Overheard fiancé’s friends saying that he[26m] is setting for me[25f]
Okay so firstly I’d like to thank you all for your advice.
So the day after posting this I met up with my fiance. On meeting him I told him how I have been feeling and did not mention the fact that I overheard his friends. On hearing that he became emotional and admitted to not being attracted to me physically but liking me as a person. It honestly did hurt as in my head I was expecting him to say something along the lines of him loving me no matter what others thought. He still wants to marry me and I still love him. He has promised to try harder and be more present in the relationship. He really has been trying these past few days, he texts me every single day and also reciprocates my ‘i love yous’.
Also, I told my mother and grandmother about everything that has been happening to which their response was more on the lines of I should be grateful that someone like him is going for someone like me and once we get married he will change over time. Now this has put me in a tougher position but honestly speaking I think I will just go ahead with the wedding as the other option is arranged marriage which I am not really keen on. And he has really started putting in effort, I do believe that he will actually fall for me gradually.
Okay so firstly I’d like to thank you all for your advice.
So the day after posting this I met up with my fiance. On meeting him I told him how I have been feeling and did not mention the fact that I overheard his friends. On hearing that he became emotional and admitted to not being attracted to me physically but liking me as a person. It honestly did hurt as in my head I was expecting him to say something along the lines of him loving me no matter what others thought. He still wants to marry me and I still love him. He has promised to try harder and be more present in the relationship. He really has been trying these past few days, he texts me every single day and also reciprocates my ‘i love yous’.
Also, I told my mother and grandmother about everything that has been happening to which their response was more on the lines of I should be grateful that someone like him is going for someone like me and once we get married he will change over time. Now this has put me in a tougher position but honestly speaking I think I will just go ahead with the wedding as the other option is arranged marriage which I am not really keen on. And he has really started putting in effort, I do believe that he will actually fall for me gradually.