Single, without family, but not alone ☺️

After a week of rather depressing efforts to make plans with friends and trawl (yes, I’ll own it) the apps, I nevertheless find my myself single and on my own tonight.

Luckily I am spending it at my favorite queer bar with a few other notorious homosexuals, gender deviants, and oddballs. It’s a dry night for me as I’m also on call ☎️

My resolution for the impending new year is to cut fake friends, ghosters, and breadcrumbers out of my life.

My second is to learn to tolerate aloneness a bit better.

My third is to lower my expectations for life as a trans girl. 2.5 years in, I feel I’m reaching the limits of what I can achieve, how much I can pass, and what level of acceptance and respect I can aspire to.

That being said, I love and care for you all very very much. Whatever you need this coming year, I sincerely hope you find it.

After a week of rather depressing efforts to make plans with friends and trawl (yes, I’ll own it) the apps, I nevertheless find my myself single and on my own tonight.

Luckily I am spending it at my favorite queer bar with a few other notorious homosexuals, gender deviants, and oddballs. It’s a dry night for me as I’m also on call ☎️

My resolution for the impending new year is to cut fake friends, ghosters, and breadcrumbers out of my life.

My second is to learn to tolerate aloneness a bit better.

My third is to lower my expectations for life as a trans girl. 2.5 years in, I feel I’m reaching the limits of what I can achieve, how much I can pass, and what level of acceptance and respect I can aspire to.

That being said, I love and care for you all very very much. Whatever you need this coming year, I sincerely hope you find it.