Hookup culture is annoying
Like no, I don't wanna fw someone I just met. Why would I? Why would anyone? Fwb is one thing, but even then, I have plenty of friends I wouldn't necessarily want to fw. I assume most if not everyone does. I'm not trying to throw shade at people who do enjoy hookups or stuff like that, I just don't understand it. Like, I at least want to get to know you first. Am I just demisexual or something? I've wondered, but I don't know. I don't think so?
For context: I've had like two people in the last week-ish reach out to me on dating apps asking me what I'm looking for (even tho it's in my profile ("no hookups")), and then later asking if I'd be interested in some "fun". Like... no...? Like I said, fwb is one thing, but we literally just met, ffs.
EDIT: Because some people misunderstood where I was coming from, I'm sorry the title of my post was misleading. I understand how my post in general came off now. But I really wasn't trying to say hookup culture is necessarily negative. I find it 'annoying' to me because I don't understand it, and that makes my dating life that much harder, but I don't think it's inherently bad. I think if you do participate then you should do so with all of the necessary precautions, but it's not my business anyway. Just because I don't understand something doesn't necessarily mean I think negatively of it. Anyway, TIL that how I understand sexual attraction is in fact not 'normal', so thanks. /gen