Good partners are out there.
So my husband and I currently live in America but are definitely planning our exit. Unfortunately I am in the middle of a graduate school program and if I pull out in the middle of it, I will totally nuke my career. So we are staying for now.
The good news is, I had a hysterectomy and my husband had a vasectomy. So we aren't in danger of an unwanted pregnancy and trying to get an abortion and/or dying because of that in Nazi America.
But the other day we were talking and I said I'm just happy that we can't get pregnant right now. And my lovely, sweet husband said "No. If you could get pregnant we would be leaving tonight. I'd give you every dime I've ever saved so you could go back to school in a different country."
I just love him. Everyone, keep looking for your childfree partner. They're out there and they're amazing.