Does the year really matter?

I feel like I’m playing the game wrong, I started playing about 2 weeks ago and I feel like I haven’t gotten really anything done! I finally googled how to cook and now I know I need to upgrade the house first. I just wonder if I’m doing it all wrong since I haven’t really made any progress on my farm or my tools.. I was trying to build up my resources but I’m worried about the time passing.. I’m almost at year 2 if that provides any clarification Any advice appreciated! :)