Dating advice needed

Hi All,

Just a question, do women when looking to date, look for certain “must haves” in a person beyond the standard stuff, especially on dating apps (such as size of your member downstairs)?

For context, I’m a 28 year old guy, 5ft6, very fit (love the gym), decent face, tatted, own house, great job, and have a little 3 year old princess from previous marriage.

But also very average in the downstairs department, maybe just slightly longer than average.

Dating just scares me more than anything. Ex wife cheated with a co worker, so as you can imagine, self esteem went out the window, especially when I got blamed for her cheating..

Any advice would be very appreciated!