Both dates from the weekend are ghosting me.

I, 26M, had two dates over the weekend. One girl on Friday and one girl on Saturday. Both dates (I thought, at least) went very well. Plenty of conversation, laughs, relatablility, and always walked them to their cars afterwards. I especially thought that the Friday date went very well. However, it seems that I am being ghosted by the two of them. I paid for both meals, too(usually on first dates, I had always split the bill but got ghosted afterwards and wanted to make a good impression). However, all my messages are are ignored and can see one posting online from a social media that week exchanged.

I've been taking this time pretty hard since I got ghosted by both girls and it's close to Valentines Day, so relationship stuff is in the air. It's also hard since my coworker talked about having a date around the same time and everything is going well for them (obviously, I'm happy for them but ya know).

It doesn't help with always being reminded of being single for years, either by all my friends moving in with their partners or getting made fun of by family and at the workplace for being single. I even tried getting back into therapty, which my therapist said that it was "weird" that I'm not dating anyone. Idk, it really just makes you feel undesirable, you know.