[DAV ACT 1 SPOILERS] Romance Lock Inquiry

I’m playing an Elf Shadow Dragon Rook as someone who has wanted to romance Lucanis since the companions were announced, and I just reached the choice act 1 spoiler

Where I had to choose between Minrathous and Treviso. I of course picked Minrathous as it’s my characters home and makes much more sense from a role playing perspective. I assumed this would lead to an approval drop from Lucanis, but from what I’m seeing online this completely locks you out of his romance for the remainder of the game. I’m coming here to ask if that’s true because I have seen some conflicting sources say that it’s only more difficult to romance him but not impossible. If it is still possible, I would like to know so I can keep laying my game as it is, but if saving Minrathous really does lock you out of the romance I will reluctantly go back and save Treviso even though it doesn’t make much sense at all for the Rook I am role playing as. If anyone has played far enough please let me know!

As far as my opinions on this decision if I really am locked out, I guess I respect the writers for taking a swing at a consequential decision (like Ashley or Kaidan in ME1) but this feels a bit more unfair to me because it looks like Neve is still romanceable even if you save Treviso? So I’m not going to lie I will be very disappointed if I’m actually locked out of the romance because I would’ve chosen a different backstory 🥲