I absolutely adore ENFJ’s, however you guys are very rare. Where do I find you?

I feel like ENFJ men are especially rare, and as an ENFP, I can’t envision my future partner as any other type. INFJs are also very sweet, but I prefer Tertiary Se over inferior Se. What I appreciate in my ENFJ friend is that she always encourages me to be more active. I am a homebody and rarely go out of my way to engage in outdoor socializing or attend concerts, hiking, festivals, etc.