Ladies - does anyone else struggle with um…splashing?

So sorry for mentioning this but I’m losing my mind. I can’t explain this without feeling absolutely embarrassed. But lately when I have a flare up - it seems unavoidable that some of the contents splash into my private parts. I don’t know how it’s physically possible but it’s driving me nuts as on top of IBS I am now worrying about infections. Obviously I wash with soap but it gets irritating with how much it happens.