OSPs has your family life been difficult

(I'm Muslim.nri but socio economic background more similar to the average Pakistani hence posting here)

Specifically those people who had to send money and it went to extremes. My uncle has taken £500k of it he rose like a lion and took it all and now plans to buy citizenship abroad. I feel very emasculated. Ofc i was not allowed to ever say anything so not totally my fault. I saw my uncle last week . He was somewhere I didn't expect him to be and his demeanor and happiness shocked me