I don’t have fun with my boyfriend

My boyfriend and I have been in a long distant relationship for over two years. I love him with all my heart, he’s very sweet and romantic with me, and we have a fair amount of things in common in terms of interests, likes and dislikes. But something that I’ve grown to notice during this relationship is that I don’t seem to have fun with him and I’m getting bored.

I enjoy his company when I’m doing things, and I love to talk with him about random things and our future together, but overtime we started running out of things to talk about, and to be honest we are both not very good at starting conversation. We both love gaming and because of that fact, I thought we would enjoy playing games together and thought that we would never get bored because of it. But unluckily, we don’t really have the same taste in games and we’re both very competitive so sometimes we get heated while playing games which ends up ruining the fun.

Something that I’ve also noticed is that when we hang out (on call) sometimes I like to act silly and just start saying random things, or asking stupid questions for the fun of it, but he never really engages and doesn’t match the energy I’m putting out. To put it in perspective, it feels like I’m just being a weird annoying friend thats getting silently judged. I often confront him about it, wondering if he does not have fun with me, but he says he does and that he just doesn’t know how to respond to the silliness.

The only thing we can think of doing together is to play games (which gets boring) watch movies (becomes repetitive) or just talk (with nothing to talk about). Whenever I ask him if theres anything else we could do, he always just says “idk” and says he can’t think of anything else to do together because he’s “not creative”. I’ve tried spicing things up by suggesting date ideas, like learning to play guitar together, baking on call together, or asking him to teach me his language (he’s Swedish) but we never seem to go through with it. I always seem to have more fun with other people than I do with my own bf and it saddens me.

I’ve started to have doubts in our relationship, because although we have much love for each other and I want to spend my life with him, I’m afraid of spending the rest of my life with someone that I won’t enjoy being with. I was planning to take a big trip to Sweden to finally be with him this coming summer. He always talks about things he wants to do with me when I’m there which sound like lots of fun. So I’ve mostly been holding off on my doubts until I see him, thinking things will probably be different when I’m actually with him. But I’m also scared that it probably won’t be much different, and that we’re probably just not compatible. What should I do? How can I fix this?