I don't get why everyone thinks we are god

I've been looking through this sub for awhile and thought I was really onto something, until I saw all the comments about "you are god, we are god, etc". I saw someone say that heaven isn't real because of oneness and so forth. And I went down this huge rabbit hole on here that just didn't click with me.

There's several things here I do agree with, but I just can't get behind being god. Is that a common thought here?