This stripper kissed me without permission

First visit at this strip club, and this girl put my hands near her vagina, etc - and kissed me while doing it, without even asking. Is this the norm for a VIP 200$ dance? Felt kinda violated in the sense I can catch some herpes and I've never met this person? Then she shared her number which I admit, did take, and she texted me first thing in the morning. I understand she's doing this to get a new regular but it's like fuck, why in the hell did you kiss me, WHAT IF I HAD herpes or something???