I dont know my own language and I hate it

My ethnic background is Turkish. No one really bothered to teach me my own language. I'm super patriotic towards my background and I really know the history of my country like really well but I don't even know Turkish and I hate that. I cant even consider myself a Turk due to that part.
I'm almost turning 16, and I have really little time before I turn 18-19, go to University and my life becomes all Busy hell. I keep on asking my parents to get me a teacher if they dont have time. I tell them, its ok I can learn in my free time everyday 1 hour. They always end up forgetting. I'm never going to learn my own language. I dont know if 2 years is enough tho.....