The true thing making dating nowadays toxic, is the obsession with texting.
Everything around dating a person, revolves around texting. You have to text all day, everyday, emidiatly, good morning and good night texts, keep track of who texted first last time, who does it more often,. If you are busy, then you apparently is a red flag because all your time and thoughts has to revovlve about the person you just meet.
We need to slow the fuck down and give each other space to breath and get to know each other in a more down to earth kind of way.
I got text anxiety because of all the stuff that expected of you through that god damk phone, and if you text something the other person find little wierd, you get ghosted. And its so easy to miscommunicate through text.
We are making it way harder than it needs to be to date in the 21'st century.
Edit: its hilarious how many of you are focusing only on my spelling mistakes. Actually sad so many judge somebody on their ability to spell correctly .
I will forever spell immediately as emidiatly, just out of spite.
And remember , not all on the internet has English as their first language.