opinions

so I recently lost my virginity (F20) and as a normal person would, I bled the first time and the guy I did it with (M25) wasn’t aware I was a virgin until the last second but said it was okay but didn’t lead on and made me try to do most things. The next 2 days after he would still not reply to me and then I ended up sending a message and he said it was weird with all the blood and kept blaming me for it and that’s the reason we can’t work things out. so is it really a big issue when it comes to first time and blood?